Sunday, April 22, 2012

INHO: (Don't) Just Blame the Students

In so many ways, my teaching situation is beautiful and enjoyable and a perfect fit for what I love, what I'm good at and what I want to put my effort into.

However, there are challenges.

And one of the primary challenges I face is the co-teaching relationship.

Sometimes, co-teaching can be the most amazing thing in the world, with two teachers truly using their strengths and talents to serve students in the most effective way possible. Additionally, this successful co-teaching allows the teachers to kind of share the responsibility for planning and expending energy which is quite nice.

Sometimes, however, co-teaching is simply the pairing of two teachers who do not view the world in the same way, who do not hold the same philosophies of education nor view students in the same way. And this is most frequently what leads me to great frustration in my workplace.

Most recently, a co-worker explained to me that one class had bad behavior solely because one student has bad behavior. Now, I don't know the language nor all the cultural norms, but let me just say, I've SEEN bad behavior and I know students that can cause a classroom to be a bit more than distracted...and this student, he's not it - maybe in language or culture it's possible, but in general behavior...not so much.

What I do find generally lacking in class with this particular co-teacher is a healthy enforcement of classroom management. If the teacher is talking, there's a 80% chance that the majority of the students are also talking, not listening and definitely not participating. If the target is to use English to answer something, there's a 50% chance English is not being used but the lesson is continuing forward nonetheless. And, again, maybe it's a difference in cultural expectations, but I don't know. I've had co-workers who command the attention of their students are well respected for it.

The part that really gets under my skin though, the part that turns me from the Foreign Teacher my co-workers talk to the Foreign Teacher their scared of, is when a co-worker explains the problem solely in terms of the students:

"Oh, they're so bad."                             "They are just following that one bad students example."   

           "They are 6th graders, you know how 6th graders are."                      "Oh, these students."

Perhaps, I can see in some cases, there is a bit of truth. But personally, I want co-workers who recognize the students aren't doing so well, they are misbehaving. And rather than just blaming the students, I want co-workers who take some time to consider their teaching style, their teaching materials and the true needs of their students and work toward adjusting what they are presenting. Because we're the adults here. We're the ones who should set the example, the expectation, the level of respect.

In my humble opinion.

(Typed while my students are on a fieldtrip and I'm left to enjoy two days of freedom, writing about what I love and hate and drink coffee mix from Taiwan from a thermos wrapped in a sweet hand-knit cozy ^^)

Saturday, April 21, 2012

Books 2012: Hippie Boy


Hippie Boy: A Girl's StoryHippie Boy: A Girl's Story by Ingrid Ricks
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I really love memoirs, the stories of people, every-day people. I especially enjoyed this memoir because it I think it is a story that is, in parts, more true and common in the states than most would perhaps realize. Poverty, religious-fanaticism, broken homes and the amazing ability of children to love their fathers/mothers. Having worked in a school with the poorer students of a small town, I felt like I was offered a glimpse of their lives, the stories they couldn't express and the humanity of us all. I suppose, in parts, I could even glimpse my own life at various intersections of the novel.

One passage that stood out, especially for the imagery:

"My stomach felt like a hundred bees were buzzing inside it, angrily stinging me as they bumped up against their prison walls." (location 142)

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A few more notes: (As in I should of Added):

I started reading this book because a dear, dear friend of mine started reading it and although she didn't email me to say "hey, you should read this book" it popped up in my Goodreads and I thought "hmm, I have that book too, I should read it!" I like feeling like I'm reading with friends, even if they're on the other side of the world. You should get on Goodreads and Link up to Pixel of Ink so we have the same books and you can help me decide what to read ^^ Just sayin.

(Typed while drinking water from a mug decorated by colorful little zoo animals and plants). 

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Books 2012: The Help

The HelpThe Help by Kathryn Stockett
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I finally had the opportunity to read this story and I'm so glad that I did. Beautifully written, insightful and wise I enjoyed getting to know the distinct personalities of each character, watching as their lives collided for a season and the way they worked within that season to speak and to be heard and to cause change.
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“That's the way prayer do. It's like electricity, it keeps things going.” (pg. 23)

“Truth. It feels cool, like water washing over my sticky-hot body. Cooling a heat that's been burning me up all my life.Truth, I say inside my head again, just for that feeling.” (pg. 129)

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A few other notes: This is yet another hardcover/tangible book that I have with me in Korea, therefore I've never read it on the bus, nor taken out of the house. Rather, I've consistently come home to curl up with the help on my favorite, comfy chair and mug of tea or water.

(Typed while steeping a thermos of English black tea, a gift from recent CouchSurfers).

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Goals: April 2012

Anyone else notice that April is half over and I've said hardly anything about my goals for the month? I hope not...but I'm pretty sure only about 5 people read this year bloggy anyway, and that's just fine by me.

Anyway, April is going decently well - not big goals really, or nothing daily anyway.

I have a goal to run 4 times per week. It's going surprisingly well, which is good considering I've signed up for my first 5K on April 29th (2 days after I officially enter my golden year!!!)

I have another goal to study Korean more frequently - this is less impressive, as in, I haven't done much.

I have a goal to write letters and send them via post more frequently, I have written a couple and bought some cutesy stationary and have mental plans for the best days to stop by the post office - hoping I get 5-10 things mailed out this month and that I can truly make this a steady and increasing habit.

I don't have any book reading goals this month. I'm working on The Help when I'm home and trying to find a good bus book as well as get through some of the longer reads of group books I'm reading (Sherlock Holmes and Searching for God Knows What to be specific).

Oh, and I'm trying to do Quiet Times more frequently, old school, college style - in the morning, with tea, a journal and the bible - the times I've managed it, it's been nice.

Perhaps I'll fill you in more later, but this is kind of a goal-setting/update post all in one...makes things tricky ;)

Friday, April 6, 2012

A Month of Gratitude: March 2012

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Sharing Spiced Hot Choco with Jacqui and Pedro before they leave. The Hunger Games. SaraJane's Friendship. Time. Coffee date with Yeo Ock. Green wool coats, mustard colored scarves and hand-crocheted head-bands. Constant tapping at the classroom windows of students waving hello. Better than expected. Snugly husband. Encouragement from S.J. Amaretto Chocolate. Pajamas. Skyping with Mark, followed by Matt and Jen. Support and love from Cailin via FaceChat. The soothing orange glow of the sunrise and the sunset, all in one day. Nights filled with joy, laughter, 'family' and Costco trips. Evening walks. Finding the PERFECT green nail polish. Loves notes in unexpected places. Silence. Afternoon visits with Garrett and Alla. Polka-dots. Sore muscles. Ice Cream Sandwiches. Sweet, thoughtful, personalized gifts. Surprisingly delightful coconut rum beer from the Rum Boat. A patient and grace-giving husband. Watching my man on the soccer field. Thai Coffee. Traditions (Valentine's meal preparation). Stretching. Knowing I'm still loved and thought of at 519. The way Lady makes me laugh til I cry, who knew dogs were so entertaining? Morning cuddles with Lady in the Big Comfy Chair. Cookies, warm from the oven. Time for lounging and reading. Rainboots. Swap meets and impromptu potluck dinners.

Thursday, April 5, 2012

Vulnerability and Courage



During 20 minutes of listening to this woman talk about Shame, Vulnerability, Courage and her research I found myself reflecting on not only my own willingness to be vulnerable, but more frequently my thoughts drifted toward women in my life who in recent days were sharing their hearts and lives in real and beautiful and vulnerable ways.

Like my friend who is beautifully passionate about social justice and who is reflecting on race, and what that's going to mean for her precious son as he grows up.

Or like another friend who courageously shares her beauty and her journey with self-image, even when that means shaving her head.

These 20 minutes also left me thinking about my role as a friend. as a wife. as a sister. as a daughter. as a mentor. as a teacher. as a believer.

(Typed while snacking on Hershey's Hugs after having finished an instant cafe latte)

Monday, April 2, 2012

Book 2012: Daughters of Iraq

Daughters of IraqDaughters of Iraq by Revital Shiri-Horowitz
My rating: 3 of 5 stars


I enjoyed the way the naration of this novel changed, how it crossed generations and country borders. In these pages one learns about the power of family and history and the way we are connected to those who came before us. Really, well written and enjoyable - as well as insightful, I feel as I need to do a bit more research into the history of Iraq and the middle east in general.

"I must point out that in those days, women like my grandmother were considered peculiar; wandering through the villages and selling one's wares was not considered suitable work for women. Those who made a living in this way were treated as social outcasts, but my grandmother wasn't concerned with honor and status; she worried about how to feed her children. She didn't want to be a burden on her family, which was poor to begin with." - Location 467
"We never felt lonely. We experienced everything together: sadness, joy, hardship, prosperity." -Location 1059
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"...to feel that no matter where they go, their home will always be there, in their heart. That's what we call roots. And thank God, we have strong roots." - Location 2523
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A few other notes:

This was yet another perfect bus book - chapters were the perfect length for me to read one or two while one the bus and before arriving at work - I just love that! I'm intrigued by the historical aspects of this book and feel I need to do some research regarding the accuracy of the events described which led Noa's (the main character) Jewish family to flee from Iraq and take up life as refugees and expats in Israel.

(Typed while finishing up a thermos filled to the brim with simple green tea)

Goals Update: March 2012

Turns out, I was a) Lousy at Keeping my Calendar, b) Lousy at some of my new goals and c) relatively awesome...let me explain, but first, here is to point A:
So, my goals for March revolved around the morning/evening stretch routine which was kind of a fail, but I still would say I'm stellar at stretching daily and when time allows I've been doing something that is good for my strength (sit-ups, push-ups, lunges, plank, etc.)

I also wanted to floss more often...not so much, but flossing is still more of a routine than it ever has been, and for that I'm satisfied.

I had this goal for my posture:
Increase awareness of posture - currently, my thought is to conciously check my posture when each school bell rings, that's about 10-12 reminders during the day to align my ears to my shoulders and shoulders to hips, strong core, etc.

I didn't do it exactly, but was generally more aware of my posture than normal, so again, win!

Bible reading and prayer is about as frequent as stretching, which is satisfactory for me at this point.
All in all, I feel my daily goals will never be achieved daily, but by the time the month comes to a close, I feel much more satisfied with the attention that I given these details. I don't think I'll carry any of my goals over into April/the Spring. I trust that stretching, praying, flossing, drinking water, checking posture, etc are in relatively solid places - time to move forward!

Where I really sucked it up was again, the travel journal...going to ignore that for awhile and just let it happen, or not happen.
However, I did manage to finish 5 books, including the Hunger Games series which was phenomenal! I also did better at updating my food blog, although not within 3 days -- and that is solely because, as I realized this month, I go on huge cooking spurts - making 3-5 new dishes in one day or evening, impossible to record all of that in a super timely manner...geeze.

So that's the gist of things, really looking forward to sharing April's goals with you!
(Typed while sipping on a mix of instant coffee with cream and sugar and just coffee and sugar ^^)
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